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Welcome to the article on the topic of | ...he loves me...he loves me not |
This could just as easily say | ...she loves me...she loves me not |
Weather you are married, or just living together, you may be one of the millions of people each year who discover just how quickly and permanently things can go wrong in a relationship. By the way, once relationships fall apart it is very difficult to repair them, not impossible, but seriously difficult. The majority of people who go through destructive trauma in their relationships most often appear as though they are blind to what is really happening all around them. It is very easy to become lazy, take for granted your mate. It's a fact that people will put on any show to capture the heart of another while dating, but after they get together they become the person they really are, and this can be a very real shock to the other person. Here are a couple examples:
The list of examples could go on for pages, relationships are in trouble! This next statement is going to anger many people. Millions of people are lazy in their relationships, they do not even try to behave appropriately until things have fallen apart for their mate. There happens to be two words that are important when speaking about relationships: WAKE UP! Stop being self-centered, self-satisfying and self-fulfilling only, get your heart and mind centered on the needs of your mate and act upon those things. Start thinking and doing for them just as soon as you have finished this short article. If on the other hand you feel you deserve to be served by your mate without returning the favors, get used to living alone with a broken heart. And if you happen to have children being taken away from your selfish life, shame on you. In that case you have not only mistreated and disrespected your mate, but are busy ruining the lives of your children. Who am I you ask to be so bold and seemingly self-righteous? I will soon celebrate my 35th Anniversary with a woman I married just before she turned 18. We have endured a hard life at times, we have had to face the difficult times of life. Many things have not turned out for us the way we originally planned them to be. For example, 13 years ago I was involved in a series of accidents that left me permanently disabled. Instead of my wife and I living the high life we had planned on when we were young, there are more things I can't do today that ones I can do. Both my wife and I have had to come to the reality of how our lives will play out, hard work, sacrifices and very serious commitment 'until death do us part'. If you want a good life whatever comes your way, love and serve GOD, love and serve your mate, you will be glad you did. You will never have to ask yourself -
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